Rotary phones, 8 track tapes and know how to drive manual transmissions. She prefers a good "stick", lol
We are (flatteringly) told (by people that don't have to lie to us) that we don't look our ages, that we
are a hell of a lot of fun and certainly do not act our age. Have you viewed our photos? They are current!
All of our photos are watermarked with the month and year they were taken ..... what you see is what you will get.
Judge for yourselves. If you agree? Then consider meeting us in person and possibly taking us for a test drive, lol
We generally prefer younger couples, we find they can keep up with us. Although the majority of the couples
we meet and play with are in the 40-65 year old range. To us age is just a number, we let a couple’s appearance
and physical state speak for itself. A contentious issue but let’s face it, physical attraction is a huge part of the
equation, isn't that what its all about? Yet we understand those instances where age is not just a number.
We know most new couples starting out are looking for matches close to their own age. We were when we first
started, it quickly became a non-issue. We are not looking for new life partners, just good "friends with benefits".

We are flexible, typically given a couple weeks notice, we can manage to set up date, weekends or even mid week.
To see if everyone is who they say they are and if we have the required chemistry to take it to the next level?
We usually set up a neutral semi public get together (coffee, drink, meal, etc.). We prefer a quieter setting like
a lounge or pub with a quiet booth, so we can actually have an intimate conversation without yelling over loud
music or the distractions of meeting at a club or party. Spending 1 to 2 hours getting to know each other better.
If the actual anticipated attraction and chemistry is there for everyone? We would continue our date in the private
environment of our hotel room. What happens then and how fast it happens typically depends on each couples
experience level and exactly how fast they like to proceed? Typically we have another drink, continue with more
intimate conversation, leading to soft swap activities, then full swap, break for drinks, conversation and repeat.
The first date from start to end typically lasts 6 to 8 hrs. But should it actually end with naked breakfast
in the morning ............ That is would be an absolutely fantastic and perfect start to a new friendship!
Now spending more time with an interesting couple over drinks, nice dinner, dinner theater, etc. over an afternoon
or who day together leading to the same result is not out of the question. But that we usually leave for repeat dates

We have developed our own "game", primarily for newbies, it is very sensual, erotic and sexually frustrating.
We ask those that wish to play the game with us, to commit a minimum six hours for the date. But before we
meet, we ensure that the four way attraction and chemistry is there? They are both ready and willing to play.
We have never had a date with a "screened newbie couple" that did not enjoy the experience.
For newbies the "game" addresses the prime pitfalls experienced when playing with another couple.
It covers everything from Soft Swap to Full Swap, it is set with multiple stages or levels.
We constantly affirm you both are comfortable with what is happening with both you and your partner.
Should any participant not be comfortable with the situation, the game would end.
The way we set up and play the game makes the experience easy and comfortable for newbies to transition to
the "dark side" (even those we have a language barrier with), they typically are anxious to get to the next level.
F.Y.I. we have never had to end a game, nor have we ever actually completed all stages of the game to the end, lol.
It is not something we typically have the time to play when on a cruise, event or take over,
as it requires spending at least 6 hours with the other couple, which does not work at an event.

Our journey as swingers is about the two of us, not about either of us individually! We do not play separately!
The lifestyle is for the most part about us as a couple, playing with other couples, a four way interaction!
We rarely play with singles because a large percentage of them are actually cheating on their partner!
As we do not play with "cheaters"! We do not to contribute to others relationship problems!
We "rarely play with singles" in FFM, FMF, MMF or MFM situations and then only as "ethical swingers".
We typically play with singles should they meet us at: a) a house party, b) an orgy or c) in a playroom.
We will verify that any "so called single" we play with is not actually attached!
We only play with a single member of a couple if we actually know their partner is both aware and approves!
That said one of the best friends we both have in the lifestyle "was" a single lady R met at a house party.
We are so happy for her, as she has since found a new life partner to spend her life with.

- as a boundary you don't intimate kiss (This is an absolute deal breaker for us, intimate kissing is an integral
part of the erotic experience, it enhances foreplay, expresses our sexual interest to whom we are kissing).
- only want to sexually cam or cybersex, (our goal is to meet and perform the acts with you in person).
- are into endless chats and messages (this is about connections, let's make a date to break bread together).
- are voyeurs or parallel players only (rent yourself a porn pay per view, we are here to play with you!)
- are only nudists (we are comfortable being nude, especially when being naked with other sexy full swap friends)
- are into humiliation, pain or drugs (although we are 420 friendly)
- feel you need to be friends first before you will play on first date.
- do not play on the first date, even if the required attraction and chemistry is there.
- cannot make a decision about if you want play within a couple hours of meeting another couple.
- are only interested in soft swap (for us that is just foreplay during a full swap session).
- think one of you can sit out, we always expect all parties involved to be active players!
- either one of you will not, or have no intention to full swap.
- won't show up to a date and satisfy your curiosity (then please, please don't bother).