She "k" attended the high school dance with her girl friend (who had a grudge against "R" for good reason),
her girl friend told her to stay away from him "R", she ignored her and initiated a conversation.
(How many of you believe in fate? That our paths though life are pre-determined?)
She took major offence to his initial reply, which was based on his helping the band set up earlier on stage.
(taken out of context) and she sucker punched him in the stomach, actually dropped him to his knees!
He apologized for his comment, explaining it was taken out of context, then asked her for a dance,
she graciously accepted, by the end of the evening he stated that he was going to marry her some day.
She told him in no uncertain terms "there is no fucking way in hell I will ever marry you"!
Four and a half years later we were married, hell must of froze over? lol
As soul mates, we both now say to each other "don't you ever fucking dare die before I do"!

We have a great sense of humor and most attracted to those who don't take themselves too seriously.
You will find us comfortable to be with, easy going, fun to be with, respectful and down to earth couple.
We are not athletes, gym rats, nor do we consider ourselves athletic, but are very physically active,
take pride in our appearance and live a relatively healthy lifestyle, which we feel are some of the
reasons why we look younger than we actually are and certainly think we do not act our ages.
We both are gray collar, but really love to get out of the office and get our hands dirty.
We work hard long hours, more than 5 days a week, (but with flexibility to schedule time off when we want)
so when we do take time off, we tend to enjoy our activities to the fullest, both vanilla or lifestyle.
We were "DINKS" (double income no kids) for the first thirteen years we were married, travelled and enjoyed life.

We do enjoy the good things that life has to offer,
but most of the time we prefer the simpler things in life.
We are comfortable almost any social situation, from black tie events, to a good camp fire cook out.
We love to party, though we rarely party hard (no hard drugs, but 420 friendly).
Some of our interests include, canoeing, fishing, hunting, snorkeling, scuba diving, golfing, skiing,
playing pool, billiards, long walks, comedy clubs, diner theater, music concerts, dancing, exotic travel,
just hanging on the beach, camp fires, hot tub, with good conversations and a drink thrown in.
"K" after fifty years as an Ukrainian ethnic dancer, has just retired, which provides us more travel and fun time.

We started this journey together as "ethical cheaters" in the fall of 1987.
(versus cheating on each other, we have always cheated together with each other)
The reason we started swinging was that neither of us had ever been with anyone else sexually past third base.
We both felt we had missed out of having a sexual relationships and experiences with others.
Ever since our first LS date in the fall of 1987, we have always been a full swap couple.
We feel the lifestyle has played a large part in the success and longevity of our relationship.
We have seen too many vanilla relationships that have failed because one partner "cheated" on the other.
Which is why we are avid promoters of the lifestyle, to those who are interested?