We really want to get to know you both individually as a couple, intimately both in and out of the bedroom
Becoming "good friends" is part of the process, they start with and grow out of a shared love of this sport.
But like in vanilla life, there are varying degrees to our lifestyle relationships, there are those lifestyle friends we
outright love, if they asked, we would give the shirts of our back and we see as often as we can, then those we do
not have that same intense spiritual relationship with, but love being in their company all the same, both in and out
bed, to those we know, have met many times, socialize with, but are not sexually interested in or involved with.
We have made many great friends over the years and always enjoy meeting them again, when our stars align.
We have never intentionally approach a date with another couple as "a one of".
On average we have met and played with 50% of the "friends" we have on the LS sites we are on.
Over the years, we have managed to reconnect with close to 30% of these friends multiple times.
Logistics and timing are a big factor when trying to connect and reconnect with any couple.
For some of these friends it has taken up to five years or more before we actually had the opportunity to meet.
We find that we sometimes need to play the long game, we prefer things to happen faster, but Que Sera, Sera.

Other attractive, sexy, full swap couples, who both are active participants and players, no one sits out!
Couples who smell nice because they always show up for a date freshly showered and clean, well groomed,
outgoing, shaved smooth (or nicely trimmed) in all the right places, (unkempt facial hair is a deal breaker for her!).
Couples who are respectful, genuine, honest, open minded, easy going, social drinkers, fun to be with,
with no pressure, jealousy or drama, very social and sensual people. You can expect the same of us!
We enjoy the social and erotic aspect of the lifestyle, actually meeting another couple, who doesn’t mind getting
their halos dirty and being naughty and having a positive, sexually charged and intimate experience together with us.
We are DDF (but 420 friendly), non-smokers, but if you smoke and can avoid doing it around us, or vape and don't
taste or smell like an ashtray, (bring your preferred mouth wash or use ours) we will give you serious consideration.
Neither of us are interested in a LS relationship with those who have totally let themselves go.
While we don't expect Barbie and Ken, we do expect you to be attractive and take good care of yourself. We do!

From our first date in 1987, we have been a full swap couple, same or separate room (your preference),
anything else (voyeurism, soft swap, etc.) is considered foreplay, just part of a journey expected to end in full swap.
We have just never seen the appeal in going half way!
We are comfortable with bisexual couples, but we prefer couples with a true interest in the opposite sex.
He is straight, but not afraid to cross swords. "K" defines as “BI Situational”, with a cock for the main course and
BI Play (with the right lady) as desert. With guys she focuses on the act(s), with ladies more of a connection is
required, although if the guys need a break, she could be looking for something to do, as she is quite insatiable, lol.
So if your interests and focus is primarily or only on bisexual play, we are not going to be a match!
If the required attraction and chemistry is there, we play on the first date, lets go on an erotic adventure together.
We ask couples that we meet to be of the same mindset. If that's too fast for you, that's OK, we just are not a match.
We are firm believers that all players have to come away with something positive and enjoy the experience,
which means every one respecting the sexual preferences and boundaries of all the parties involved.

Although as a couple we play safe, unprotected sex is a consideration for freshly tested and clean couples we trust.
"R" is snipped "K" is non-bearing. We both get tested for STI's regularly, always clean results and expect the same.
She is: HWP, fairly fit, always dresses to impress, is sexually insatiable, sometimes shy, but will take charge.
Craves the thrill of flirting, intimate kissing, touching, fondling, oral sex - both giving and receiving,
with the end goal of vaginal sex. Looking for a guy who can finish the job stated above, possibly capable of a
mini marathon, at least a 1000 yard run, not just a 100 yard dash, is more interested in his sexual prowess and
attributes than in his physical appearance, (a little overweight is not a deal breaker, it depends on how he carries it),
facial hair (if he has any) needs to be neat, well kept and trimmed, otherwise it's a deal breaker for her.
He is: HWP, fairly fit (but his six pack still comes from the fridge, lol), open-mindedly straight, not shy, he'll talk to
just about anyone, doesn't take himself too seriously, but is serious about the things that are important to him.
Craves the thrill of flirting, intimate kissing, touching, fondling, oral sex with an attractive sexy woman, both giving
and receiving, with the goal of closing the deal with vaginal and possibly anal sex (if the lady is willing and receptive).
Looking for a sexy lady close to HWP (charts are available on line), a few extra pounds are o.k. if she carries it well.
He is sorry, call him vain and shallow, but he is just not sexually attracted to bigger women.

If your actual bodies match up to the photos you provided, our physical attraction to you was predetermined!
We both know each other so well that we most of the time we will know whether or not we both
feel the required chemistry to play with another couple within 10 to 60 minutes of meeting them.
If those two conditions are met? There will be nothing "situational" about our wanting to play with you as a couple.
We are not a "friends first", let's play after we get to know you better, couple! We just are not into long courtships!
The best lifestyle friends we have, we played within 15 minutes and no later than two hours after meeting them.
We normally get to know our friends better after we have played with them, between sessions, over breakfast, lol
We find if the sex was great and we break bread between sessions, it is hard not to become good friends.
We know not everyone is on our level, but feel if you do not know if you want to or are ready to play with another
couple after spending a couple hours with them, you are not compatible with u!
If you are not prepared to play if the required attraction and chemistry is there? Why are you involved the lifestyle?
Life as too short & our time is too valuable, to meet couples who are not ready and willing to play on the first date!